Friday, February 27, 2015

You've got mail!

Remember "You've got mail!"?
I'm dating myself here, but just as exciting as those words used to be - so it is now when we get a call from a number we don't know saying things we don't understand!  It means we have a package!!

Yay for packages!!!  We received two packages this week!!  Thanks Grandma!!

The kids were super excited. :)


Our second package was from our precious friends in KY.  Thanks "Aunt Rae" and "Uncle Wayne" :) The anticipation was almost too great!

They have been very excited and are really enjoying their candy and I'm looking forward to using the sauces and spices sent. :) 



We really don't have a lot of needs here, but packages fulfill some wants and connections from home. Tastes of things from the states that we miss.  We have a page on the top of the blog with more info on "Sending Packages."  More than getting stuff is just knowing folks remember us, think of us, spent time and energy to send us something. :)  This includes emails. There are days that I just go back and re-read emails sent.  You have no idea how encouraging that is in a world where words of affirmation are lacking.  Thank you!!!

Back to the package phone call.  So, phone numbers on packages are more important than zip codes here. The "mailman" calls when he gets to our apartment complex to let us know.  Here is one of the "Mailmen."  There seem to be many, many different "companies" that deliver packages, unlike the USPS, and the "big-3" options in the states.  Yes, he is on a scooter and those are bungee cords holding the packages onto the bike (why packing them carefully is important). On one call, I understood enough to hear the words "package" and "United States" (which literally means "Beautiful country" here).  :)  My heart jumped and Brian ran down to look for the guy. 


Why not just put in our mailbox?  Mailboxes - well they don't really exist.  We get a call or sometimes a text message saying a package has arrived (we've learned the words for package and can recognize text saying such).  Then we go and find it in the management office.  Often, like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack.  We literally must look at every package to find ours (unless we are quick enough to find the delivery/mail guy dropping it off - at which point he just hands it to us).   


Occasionally the package will be put into a box like this and we get a text with a code on it.  

We haven't figured out how some get put it in the box and others don't but when it is in the box - it is so much easier.  We punch in our code that was texted us and Voila- a door opens and our package is inside.  *Almost like going to the mailbox.* :)  We live here in an "almost" and "something like" world as we compare things/food/places to those that are familiar to us from the states.  

We definitely have our moments, hours or days of really missing our friends and family back home. We are so thankful you are walking alongside us.  It encourages us more than we can express.  Thank you.  





Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Exploring during CNY break

Many have asked how New Year's was here. Well,  it was pretty uneventful for us.  Our city made fireworks illegal this year so we didn't have the 24 hours each day of fireworks we had two years ago in Beijing.  Not having them really did make for beautiful days afterward though.  We heard that one year on CNY day the pollution index was over 700 here!  So, not having them was definitely good in that regard. We tried to look for things to do but weren't able to locate anything like the festivals we attended in the states.  Maybe in the bigger cities? There was a show very much like our New Year's Eve broadcast from Time Square with dancing and singing.   They even have a ball that drops.  We didn't get to spend New Year's with a family here but we did have dinner with friends at McDonald's. Sad right?  Last year we had dumplings and all sorts of special Ch*nese treats and crafts.  Here in country - we went to McDonald's and played on the playground with friends. While playing, we met a local family who told us about the tv show, ... So, we went in to see what was drawing so much attention.  It was pretty neat and much more kid friendly than our New Year's Eve shows in the states. :)  At least I think it was, couldn't understand any of the language - lol.

Definitely a different type of new year... We did see a few burnt offerings around the city.  Not sure what it was, maybe a chicken? They do this for their ancestors.  We've been learning much about the beliefs many hold her. My heart longs to share light and life here.

Just like our winter (Christmas) break, this is winter break here and they too get two weeks off.  So, we've been doing a bit of exploring.  We still have had assignments from school that have been great for our entire family - going to a Temple, watching relevant videos, cultural assignments and working on language.

On New Year's Eve we visited a very popular Daoist Temple in our city.  Many people burned incense, bowed to idols and gave money - in buckets as well as a fountain where they tried to blow it into the center for better luck.  There were also fortune tellers.  As the people bowed to one of their gods they would shake a container with fortunes until one came out (or they grabbed one).  They would pay for it then take a corresponding paper to the fortune teller who would "read" their fortune.







Interestingly, this religion also has a trinity.



 They have an idol/god that preaches salvation...

It was heavy walking through this, watching.  Aili said their idols/gods looked mean and scary.  It was very interesting to read the bits and pieces of another true story I know; yet how far from it they are. We continue to lift up those we saw there.  

The kids really enjoyed their time looking around.  They really like the cultural things here, the beautiful architecture and the open space.  Meisi says she likes seeing "cool things."  Ian usually isn't excited to go but once there enjoys looking at and exploring each place we visit.  


We don't know these kids, but as usual - our kids attract a paparazzi-like following of cameras wherever they go.  So far they haven't minded, so we encourage them to participate.  Aili says she'd like to start charging for pictures though. :)  My little entrepreneur.

 This is a mythological creature that many people rubbed all over for good luck.  Our kids enjoyed playing on it (other national kids were doing the same, so we let them).
 Peek-a-boo anyone?




A few days after the temple we went to a park which is the people's favorite park here (so we hear).
It was very crowded, but fun to explore. First we stopped for lunch at KFC.  Which was funny.  We went there for ease... Well, it took us 10 minutes to order.  Not sure what we were doing wrong.  I think it had something to do with corn on the cob only being available at a certain time.  I'm not sure. We ended up with the wrong thing and less drinks than we ordered - but we ate. KFC here is something like KFC at home, only it is all spicier and the chicken pieces are much smaller.  Oh - and they have this little chicken whose name I suppose is "Chicky."  Doesn't he kinda look like Col Sanders as a chicken?  No offense, I mean, I'm a KY girl, but somehow they do resemble one another. ;)



The People's Park had some very beautiful flowers out. :)  Almost like Fishhawk ;) Except they were still in their planters, but arranged very well.

I wanted to buy this toy - haha.  I mean - where else can you get this?  It is the three wheeled carriage bike that I rode in and the kids got to ride in on CNY.  So so fun! My kids weren't impressed.

There were paddle boats too!  We will definitely have to come back one day for this.  There was a long line on this day and it was already getting late.

There were stairs, but also this trail that looked well worn.  We chose the trail.  Almost like hiking. :)

Tree swings - for real -tree swings.  With three little monkeys - a perfect place to play.




Their ingenuity in the use of space and material is amazing to me.  This seat may or may not have been carved from a tree,... looks like a tree but their attention to detail in construction could mean this is some other material.

The sign said, "Children's Playground."  Haha... yep, exactly what I was expecting!  Weren't you? Truly, this is a children's playground here. :) The kids were pleased.  Funny thing about this - I hated carnivals in the states and would rarely let my kids get on those things.  Being in another land definitely changes us.




We found all the stuff sold at the dollar tree - only here, it is more than a dollar.

Fishhawk Friends - we found an "Art Monkey" equivalent too. :)

And a guy who paints sidewalks like Disney, only he did it in characters AND English!!  I tried to talk with him but he only wanted to write out his responses in English.  His spelling and grammar were perfect.  After writing a while he told me he was going to take a walk.   :)

More folks wanting pictures... This one surprised me.  The Tibetan Monk was who asked for the picture.  :)  Again, I  can't wait until we can speak more. 


As we walked back to the bus stop Ian quickly spotted this - a giant Bumblebee!  We went in to take pics with it.  Turns out kids weren't supposed to be in there.  It is a Karaoke club. Oops! The lady didn't say anything, but Brian saw a sign after we got the pic. :)

Late end to our night - time to splurge- Pizza Hut!!  The one on the left is a "small", the one on the right is a "large". It fed us but there were certainly no leftovers. :)


We have really enjoyed exploring.  We have one more week of more explorations before returning to full time study.  It is wonderful to be amidst the people.  Of course, there is a huge language barrier; yet we can use this time to continually intercede while looking at their faces.  It is Him who does the work, opening minds and heart.  If you have a chance, would you join us in looking though the pictures again, looking for faces to lift up?  

Thanks for following along.  I really hope you get a feeling for the place and the culture here.  More than that I hope these pictures and stories mold your heart for these people, a burden that brings you to your knees.  

Thank you for walking alongside us.  We love and miss you.


Friday, February 20, 2015

Happy 4th Birthday Mei Mei!!

Hard to believe our baby girl is four!  FOUR!!!

We started the day celebrating. :) This morning for breakfast - Mei got her first gift from us - Frosted Mini Wheats!  I found them on Amazon.cn for nearly $10 a box - but so worth it as a gift. :)

She hugged it saying, "It is exactly what I wanted!!"  :)


It was so wonderful to have our home filled with love and laughter today. I think we had over 20 special friends here who have become our family away from home. Meisi sure felt the love. :)

Another sweet friend also had a birthday today. :)  She, her hubby and Aili  did all the decorating for us while we did last minute prepping.  



Pin the eye on Muno was a hit (Glad we brought some decorations from home). We also did the dancy dance with Yo Gabba and friends (Jack Black).  Sorry - no pics of that - haha.





Brian found these great balloons that made big noises when the air is let out - it was a huge hit - the kids loved it. :)



Mei even got some presents from grandparents today. :)  She was so so excited.  



My heart is so full just looking at her and how she has grown.  As we were singing Happy Birthday to her she looked at me so full of joy, it was as though she could burst. :) Of course, when she looks at me that way, I feel I might burst with her. :)

Yet, on her birthday, my heart is burdened.  Today as we celebrate her life, the gift she is to us, my heart and mind ache for her birth parents.  We pray that His peace will fill them and that they will know she is well.  That they know, she is loved - ADORED.  Of course, we also intercede for their souls. 

Each year on her birthday I spend time looking back through our adoption blog. Gotcha Day was 2 years ago yesterday.  Looking at that post here brought back so many beautiful memories.   He is so good.  

1st birthday without a family :( , but I get to see her 2nd - with us in Ch*na, 3rd with us in the states, now 4th - here we are back again... 

And EVERY DAY from this one forward -she will have been with us longer than she was without us.  :) :) :) 

We are so blessed.  Blessed by adoption- both our own as His children and by the precious daughter He has given us.  Adoption Rocks Y'all. 

A sweet end to this day - 



Our beautiful princesses - Definitely "Forever Sisters."  

Happy 4th Birthday to our beautiful, sweet, joyful, compassionate, loving Mei.  We love you and are so thankful He chose us to be your family. :)